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We exist to empower aspiring men of color to successfully navigate life transitions. We coach and guide men of color to be resourceful by aligning their values, identity, and purpose to achieve transformative breakthroughs in their careers, relationships, and health.

Welcome To VIP Transformative Living

Where our mission is to empower aspiring men of color to successfully navigate life transitions. We coach and guide men of color to be resourceful by aligning their values, identity, and purpose to achieve transformative breakthroughs in their careers, relationships, and health.

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Helping Businesses and Individuals Achieve Their Goals

We exist to empower aspiring men of color to successfully navigate life transitions. We coach and guide men of color to be resourceful by aligning their values, identity, and purpose to achieve transformative breakthroughs in their careers, relationships, and health.

About Us

Helping Businesses and Individuals Achieve Their Goals

We exist to empower aspiring men of color to successfully navigate life transitions. We coach and guide men of color to be resourceful by aligning their values, identity, and purpose to achieve transformative breakthroughs in their careers, relationships, and health.

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"Wayne is in a class by himself. I saw myself grow significantly and even my business catapulted significantly! If you have the great fortune of sitting with (Coach) Wayne, take advantage of that opportunity. It's an opportunity of a lifetime. That mindset coach will change your life!"

Benard Campbell
Realtor & Investor

"There have been various times where Wayne has checked on me over a weekend or things that I thought outside of the normal time frame of our contract. I think things like working on the zone of genius and the impact statement have been very beneficial for me and for my career and my personal just development and growth. I consider Wayne a friend going forward."

Adom Cooper
Lawyer/National Security Expert

"I'm a real estate specialist and I had some sessions with Wayne to work on some of my issues around time management, prioritization and just focusing on a specific goal and creating steps in between to achieve that goal. I would highly recommend Wayne as a consultant and advisor in regards to developing yourself to your truest potential. He did that for me and it's driven results in my personal life and my professional life."

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Testimonials

What midlife men are saying...

"(Coach) Wayne is in a class by himself. I saw myself grow significantly, and even my business catapulted significantly! If you have the great fortune of sitting with (Coach) Wayne, take advantage of that opportunity. It's an opportunity of a lifetime. That mindset coach will change your life!"

Benard Campbell
Realtor & Investor

"There have been various times where Wayne has checked on me over a weekend or things that I thought outside of the normal time frame of our contract. I think things like working on the ZONE OF GENIUS and the IMPACT STATEMENT have been very beneficial for me and for my career and my personal development and growth. I consider Wayne a friend going forward."

Adom Cooper

Lawyer/National Security Expert

"I'm a real estate specialist and I had some sessions with Wayne to work on some of my issues around time management, prioritization and just focusing on a specific goal and creating steps in between to achieve that goal. I would highly recommend Wayne as a consultant and advisor in regards to developing yourself to your truest potential. He did that for me and it's driven results in my personal life and my professional life."

Jomar Benoit

Global Logistics Real Estate Expert

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If you’re ready to get started and you know you’re in the right place to break free of your current midlife crisis and claim your birthright, claim a life of purpose, power, and prosperity.

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Breaking Free: Discovering Your Purpose, Power And Prosperity In Midlife

Don't miss out on unlocking your full potential.

Grab our exclusive video course now and supercharge your success.

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Breaking Free: Discovering Your Purpose, Power And Prosperity In Midlife

If you’re ready to get started and you know you’re in the right place to break free of your current midlife crisis and claim your birthright, claim a life of purpose, power, and prosperity.

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Rebuild Your Confidence After a Job Setback and Boost Your Career

February 02, 20243 min read

Rebuild Your Confidence After a Job Setback and Boost Your Career

Job setbacks can shatter your self-confidence and make it difficult to stay positive.

Luckily, however, they don’t have to ruin you or your career. You can rebuild your confidence again and get your career back on track.


Rebuild Your Confidence After a Job Setback and Boost Your Career

Follow these strategies:

1. Let the wounds heal before revisiting the setback. It may be tempting to focus on the issues that led to the job setback, but you need time to heal.

  • Once you’re ready to address the issues, then you can look over the events. This will give your confidence a chance to mend itself.

  • Ask yourself questions to learn more from the experience. What lessons have you learned? Do you need to correct something to avoid similar challenges in the future? Do you understand how the job issues developed and what could have prevented them?

  • Answering these questions will help you find closure. This is important for boosting your confidence.

2. Develop your skills. Developing your skills will help increase your self-confidence. You can learn from the job mistakes of the past and work on specific details to prevent them from happening again.

3. Take small risks to boost your confidence. Try a new project at work or start a new job.

  • By facing your fears, your self-confidence will begin to grow. Carefully weigh the consequences of new ventures and take small risks. It’s important not to dwell on the job setback.


Rebuild Your Confidence After a Job Setback and Boost Your Career

4. Avoid isolation and seek out your friends. Isolation can make positive thinking more difficult.

  • Your friends can offer valuable support. They can encourage you to try again and help you figure out effective ways to deal with all the emotions that you experience in a time like this.

  • Ask for help and find new mentors. Mentors can reassure you while helping you develop new career paths. They can also help you network with new companies or peers to boost your confidence.

5. Remember the successes in your life. A job setback doesn’t define your entire life. Your life has multiple aspects beyond work, so it’s important to acknowledge and appreciate them. Analyze the successes in other parts of your life or consider past job successes.

  • Are you proud of your healthy and strong family? Do you consider your ability to run a marathon a success? Do you appreciate the knowledge you gained while pursuing a graduate degree? All of these factors can help you increase your self-confidence and remind you of success.

6. Put things in perspective. Focus on the positive aspects of your life. Realize that the job setback provided a valuable learning opportunity and the chance to reevaluate your career.

7. Create new goals. New goals can help you feel accomplished and raise your self-esteem.

  • The list should consist of a variety of goals ranging from small to big. For example, it can include going for a run every day or taking on a new project at work. If your confidence needs to be rebuilt, then consider doing one goal at a time.

A job setback can affect you emotionally, but it doesn’t have to destroy your confidence. You can overcome the setback and advance your career by practicing these strategies.

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Wayne Dawson

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